Think About It...

There are times when you desperately need someone to talk to or you crave for someone's company or want to hear some soothing words from somebody close...but...what you get, is...either...people are not responding to your calls or they do respond but state their "busy-ness" or they respond, state their "busy-ness" and say something which makes you feel worthless as you do not have anything else to do at that time but to call them and kill their "valuable" time... :-D...
So its clear...it makes you feel worse than ever---and you think "what heartless people I have in my life"!!!
But...but...just imagine this situation in the opposite way around...you are stuck in some tacky official work...feeling very much frustrated because its not going on the way you would want it to...and you can't ignore it because it is so important for your promotion and at that time, your wife calls up..."hey hon! How is your day going? Hey can you come home early tonight! I very much need your company..."...now...What will be your response? Well well...I know you will say..."Of course I will be with her".."She is my life"...etcetera...but be HONEST with yourself...won't you feel like.."Doesn't she understand how important my job is?" or might say..."Sorry dear...you know how difficult and important my job is, I don't get light works as you do"...


We do this to people closest to us. Parents, Spouses, close friends and even children...but we forget one tiny thing...Its just that...we are so much lucky to be someone of that much importance to someone's life...


We all do this mistake knowingly or unknowingly...after all, we are just human beings...but I think its very very important to show a little empathy to that person who is in need for that... 


Show care...be happy... :-)

"Those jerks are the reason I smile everyday"...

"Friendship"...The simplest and sometimes...the most complicated word in our life...As kids, we know friends mean..the people we are playing with, guys we are sharing lunch with or seating next to in class with or getting drenched together in the August rain while our way back home...Thats a very simple phase of friendship...

Now...we come to the next stage...teenage (and without any doubt, the most complicated time of our life)..
Here I see...friendship becomes a bit strange...suddenly if my best friend (if its a guy) starts liking some girl...I suddenly feel a deep cut inside my heart....as if a white hot iron rod has gone inside my regular beating heart and now it beats so loud...

Anyways...along with time, we get over with it (not quite successfully though)...

And now...in my mid twenties...I have found a new meaning of friendship...anyone can be your friend (when I say anyone..its anyone)..doesn't matter where that person has come from...who become a part of you so easily..you do not feel any extra burden of playing that part...and that's when you feel...after so many years of hard work...you have found out what "Friendship" means....It doesn't mean sacrificing your things for someone...it doesn't mean cutting yourself into perfect shape to blend into something for someone..or pretending to be someone else to make a person happy...

Its just when you feel...no matter whatever happens..you are gonna be happy and the person or people you call your friends are the reason of your happiness...I have my reason of happiness with me...and I wish that for everyone...

Long Live Friends...

And here comes The Toad...Ooops!!! The Prince...

Since I was a lit'l girl...the major part of my fascinating "DREAM WORLD" has been about Princes...Santa Clauses...Fairies...Wizards...etcetera... Now When I am a 23 (soon to be 24) years girl/lady/woman(???)...my conception about the fairy world has not changed much...except The Prince..Its like I have done a whole make over of the "prince". A mini cooper instead of a white horse...Armani suits instead of shiny royal clothes...short well kept hair instead of long curls...and an expensive Macbook and a Blackberry instead of a sword. I have not changed much about the intelligence level and mannerisms and etiquettes...(Donno what will be the outcome though). 

The thing is...You will get someone like this modern prince very easily. Car loans can make that Mini Cooper your dog. Armani suits can be bought from ebay (Guess it would be cheaper there). Macbook is so much available nowadays that people have started missing those days when Apple and Blackbeery were just fruits (Bill Gates).

And new hair style and all..just a piece of cake..but what about "the golden heart"? It was not written anywhere that only the happy prince had had the rare luck to possess a golden heart. Anyone's heart can be golden..all you need is just your effort and hard work to make gold from flesh...and modern princes lack that effort I guess. 

I heard someone said that after 2012, the world is not gonna meet its end..rather..its gonna see a new beginning...I wish the beginning starts with fairy world...simple people..simple demand..simples supply...no need to study economics to decide the price of any "goods" or "commodity"...Crazy wish..But what is life without a bit of crazy ideas??? what do you say!!...

ReIncarnation!!...May be!!!

"life" is a very common term. People use it very often..."life is good"..."life sucks!!"..."whot's there in this life!!"...etcetera...etcetera...But when I go in deep to find if I really know the depth of this "life"...I get lost in thoughts..events...incidents...which makes me forget what I was looking for. 'The depth of life'. Sometimes I think that our life is a magician...a wizard..who does not want us to know about it...u know..if u do not know about something and it is a mystery to you..you keep looking for it all the time..cursing it..thanking it...but in the end..you come to the same point where you started from.

What I have learnt till now is...its better to follow life where it is taking us...obey it...love it..like it...but do not try to plan it!!(which most of the people do already). If you do...and everything turns out to be just the way u have planned...It gets so boring!! [:)]

Live life to the fullest and enjoy each and every moment of happiness...love...grief...sufferings...these r the things which make us a better person...